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Do Not Let Manipulation Manipulate You

Do Not Let Manipulation Manipulate You

Do Not Let Manipulation Manipulate You

Manipulation comes at play when people want things done their way. Specially using unfair means to their advantage no matter who gets hurt in the process. We manipulate objects in accordance with the way we want it to be. Example, "Oh, this pair of blue jeans is too plain. Let me rip it a little in the thigh portion." Take it as a figurative hint on what can happen if manipulation is done on humans. 

The following are signs that can help you see them through and through. If you've been victim to the upcoming revelations and still are, all the warning alarms should go off by now. 

 

Questioning Yourself A Lot: People may say that questioning your perspective is a good thing. But questioning your potential and memory is not. And a manipulator can do just that. You can simply see it as doubting yourself and yes, it's a poison. Doubting your version of yourself can shift your perspective on a much unstable scale. It can give birth to a negative cycle of thinking. You will literally talk yourself out of what you aspired to do. Cause you believe that taking the safest route is the right way. But have you ever thought that maybe one day this decision will crash with reality? You wouldn't be able to find happiness cause you zipped up your potential. Don't only question your own perspective, start question why others are filling you with their ideas and views. What would they gain from what they are saying? In cases of past memories, manipulators may alter a past event you swear is not accurate from what you remember. If you have to question on what happened and defend your own sanity, first of all know that this is psychological manipulation. They'll persuade you to think that what you remember is incorrect. What are they trying to protect or conceal? Don't try to argue with them, since there's no point to it. They might probably be sarcastic about whatever you pitch them. There's no changing their minds. But know what you remember happened is not altered. At least if you're keeping it real. 

 


The "Always Disappointed" Attitude: No matter what you do, there will be someone to point out your ways do not please them in some way or the other. They will always be disappointed, cold or simply find excuses to blame you. They are basically trying to toy with your emotions so that you falter with your progress and mindset. That's how they trap you in a situation to get an upper hand. Or at least make you feel uncomfortable. First of all, do not take their trash talk personally. But do not excuse their behaviour, no matter how right they think they are. Second of all, tell them how you feel about their behaviour. And you do not need to react right away or ever give a positive reaction to keep them quiet. Listen from one ear, out the other. When they'll notice that you're not playing as they want you to, they'll possibly leave you alone. And hunt for another victim to punch off their guilt trips. God save their souls.

 

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